Because We are Not…

Culpable.

But in general, most men have yet to stand up en masse with a mea culpa, and become active allies rather than passive participants.

Hmm… Now, lets’ see how that looks with a little adjustment?

But in general, most Muslims have yet to stand up en masse with a mea culpa, and become active allies rather than passive participants.

Oh, so most Muslims are not supporters of terrorism (that being what we are repeatedly told by the same arseholes now smearing all men)? Okay, men – en masse – are not guilty of, nor are they apologists for, assaults on women. As I have never assaulted anyone in my life and no of no other man who has done so, I refuse to be tarnished with the guilt that the #metoo witch hunt is throwing about with abandon. Fuck off already. You and the horse you rode into town on. I will not be apologising to anyone, nor will I ride your vile little Marxist bandwagon.

It seems that men have achieved an impressive level of Orwellian doublethink: believing (or professing to believe) all the women who say they have been assaulted, while simultaneously seemingly believing that neither they, nor any man they know, would be capable of doing such a thing.

Bollocks.

I’m no mathematician, but if we accept that the vast majority of women have been victims of harassment, sexual assault or rape, almost overwhelmingly at the hands of men, then we must logically accept that this is not being perpetrated by a handful of prolific bad eggs.

More bollocks. Some women have indeed been assaulted. The majority most certainly have not. And to compare such things as suggestive comments or wolf whistling (gross though they are) with rape is disingenuous in the extreme. The two are not comparable. So, again, fuck off. You and the horse you rode into town on. Accusing me of being complicit in such behaviour when I most certainly am not – is one way to ensure that I will not be joining you on the barricades. I owe you no allegiance and I certainly owe you no apology and you won’t be getting one.

Assault goes far beyond a dozen or so high-profile rapist predators. It could involve your friends, your brothers, your gym buddies. It could, actually, be you. It’s simple statistics.

Lies, damned lies and statistics. You can make statistics support any cockwaffle you like, which is the case here. I have never assaulted anyone so fuck off.

Men have yet to accept this, because to do so would necessitate admitting culpability as well as complicity.

I am not culpable because it isn’t true.

We’re also not just talking about rape and sexual assault. Those exist at the far end of a sliding scale – a scale of sexism, aggression and patriarchal domination. That scale starts with the most innocuous of behaviours: with sexist language, drunken aggressive come-ons, workplace bullying, cat-calling and objectification. With assertions of power, essentially.

This is just bullshit on steroids. People saying things – even nasty things – is not assault. People have said nasty things to me. I got over it. That’s because I am an adult.

Microaggressions were not invented by white western “feminazis” in the absence of more serious problems: they are all part and parcel of a world that still sees half the population as inferior.

That’s precisely what they are. Out here in the real world populated by real people, we get on with life and nonsense such as microaggressions don’t appear on people’s radar – because they are made up nonsense peddled by the left.

As far as I am aware, I do not know any men that have raped or sexually assaulted anyone.

That’s because the vast majority of men are not sex pests or rapists. Those damned statistics again.

But I do know, and have often seen, men being cavalier with a woman’s consent, whether by being drunkenly, aggressively or simply physically threatening.

Really? I haven’t. So my anecdote trumps yours then…

I know even more men who have seen this, known this to be true, and yet still done nothing.

Really? You’re just making this stuff up, aren’t you?

To stand passively by while your friends make rape jokes, or grab strangers in a bar, or have sex with a completely intoxicated woman doesn’t make you personally culpable – but it does make you complicit.

Not having witnessed any such events, there is nothing I can do. But then, these things are not common place. At least, not out here in the real world.

Men: it is not enough to stand in solidarity with women, retweeting their #MeToo stories and condemning high-profile rapists. It’s not enough to not be a predator. It’s not enough to point the finger at them. You have to actively fight them with us.

Out here in the real world, I interact with both men and women and we do so as equals. I don’t tweet and have no intention of ever indulging in such facile claptrap. Nor am I ever going to give your nasty little misandrist witch hunt any mileage.

She’s not getting much mileage below the line either. Now there’s a surprise.

13 Comments

  1. From my experience:

    Man tries to chat up woman. Woman says No. Man walks away.

    Woman tries to chat up man. Man says No. Woman starts crying & wailing or becomes vindictive for being rejected.

    My tactic: play ignorant and pretend to not see chat up. Mostly works, but crying & wailing or becomes vindictive has still occurred.

    Men can’t win when Gov’t, Justice & MSM always side with strong, equal, women who all require special treatment and assistance.

    Me: drunk sex = 0, assault (post child scraps) = 0, adultery = 0

    Author is projecting her own debauched lifestyle? Probably.

      • Ahem

        Vast majority of WASP men; some others cough RoPs cough lack morals.

        Addendum: number of (mostly sober & a few drunk) attractive married (most) and single women declined when on/running residential course/event = all. Moral respect for their & my marriage.

        No, I’m not goody two shoes. I live by “do no harm” and break laws eg speeding when safe to do, VED on two cars as never more than two on road (4 cars, 3 MCs)..

  2. “ASIA AGENTO IS RIGHT”
    There,LR, right there is where I stopped reading and you should have too, somethings aren’t even worth the fisking.

  3. More collectivist ‘group identity’ rubbish. I recall a ‘Diversity, Equality Etc.’ training session at work led by two women who were bleating that ‘all the top jobs are held by men’. I had to point out that not all men hold top jobs and that most men were envious/resentful/reseigned of/to that fact.

  4. So do I also need to stand militantly against the women who abuse men? Or would I then be in the wrong? I’m confused as to who I should be hating this week…

  5. Of course she would never hold muslims to the same standards to which she holds men. This despite the fact that being male is an accident of birth and a male can hold any political, religious or ideological belief under the sun.
    A muslim on the other hand has to abide by an extremely narrowly defined ideology and can cease being a muslim at any time (setting being killed by another muslim aside). If a member of an ideology commits atrocities in the name of that ideology which are condoned and actually encouraged or demanded by that ideology it is entirely reasonable to expect at least the leading propagators of that ideology to be held to account.

  6. I’m a little confused. To my knowledge I have never spent any time with any man I remotely suspected of being a rapist, or for that matter of treating women badly. I certainly would never chose to spend time with them and would go to great lengths to avoid anyone like that if I did come across them.
    Somehow feminists seem to imagine that men are surrounded by unashamed and vocal serial sexual assaulters on a daily basis. I’m not. Are most men really?

  7. All markets require both a buyer and a seller.

    If men really are so prolific with their sexual advances, then that must be because they have a high expectation of success and low risk of sanction.

    And you make this adjustment: ‘But in general, most WOMEN have yet to stand up en masse with a mea culpa, and become active allies rather than passive participants.’

    Oh, and stop using their sex to manipulate men to get what they want.

  8. “Most men have yet to stand up en masse with a mea culpa” And why should they if they’ve done nothing wrong? This collective guilt thing is just bollocks on stilts. How about a big ‘Mea culpa’ from the feminists when they get it badly wrong? Oh yes, **Crickets**

  9. Not seeing the comments at all – ad/script blocker working over time on the Indy…

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